9 years. “How do the both of you stay together for 9 years when I can’t even last 9 months dating anyone?”, my colleague asked candidly over lunch today. “I don’t know, it must be love lor”, I quipped. God knows how many fights, nasty words I’ve mumbled and said to his face / behind […]
June 2017: mid-year introspection
Ahh, the 1st of June. The time when I usually do an introspection on how the last 5 months have been, and hopefully use the remaining months of the calendar year to consciously make better decisions and lead a happier life. It hasn’t been all peachy, but neither has it been consistently awful. I’ve been thrown […]
We need to judge and shame less
My morning started out happy, as captured in this photo (this was taken just before we went for our mom-bub date this morning), so little did I anticipate that my afternoon would be the complete opposite. You’ve heard parenting buzzwords: “mom guilt”, “breast bullying”, “pacifier suckers”.Well, today I was on the receiving end of “parenting shaming”. Those with […]
Be Mad, Be Bold, Plunge into an Adventure into Wonderland this June!
“Would you tell me, please, which way I ought to go from here?” “That depends a good deal on where you want to get to.” “I don’t much care where –” “Then it doesn’t matter which way you go.” ― Alice in Wonderland Maybe it all began after that one eventful experiential Wonderland tea party […]
“13 Reasons Why” – Why? Why Not? Because we need to start talking about it.
“Hey, it’s Hannah. Hannah Baker”… By now, those of you who have primary school going kids must have heard about the much talk about, controversial young adult TV drama which was recently released by Netflix. When I first watched the trailer of Netflix’s 13 Reasons Why, I assumed it was ‘just another who-murdered-her’ / crime TV […]
Weight Loss With Mini Slim Programme at Halley Medical Aesthetics
“Girl! you’ve really slim down, look at that tummy, it has flatten down!” my mom exclaimed the other day over dinner. “Huh? Maybe cause I’m in an all black outfit and it’s loose, that’s why,” I shrugged, aware that apart from the husband, my mom is absolutely one who doesn’t mince her words. “No it’s […]
Oh, surely it’s going to get better
[Images source] Oh what a shitty week it’s been, laden with mom’s guilt and a wife’s wrath. I had 2 mornings this week when I questioned my role as a mom when I failed to handle my newly minted 5 year old with a textbook answer, that it went on to affect my morning. […]
Liam’s 5th Birthday Celebration – I planned a PJ Masks theme party in 5 days
“That’s what you say every year! We shall see!”, my good (mommy) friend Sheryl quipped, when I mentioned during our play date earlier in January that I was probably not going to throw a birthday party for Liam this year. She was right, I’ve been saying it for the past 4 years. Yet every year, […]
The 5-year motherhood milestone
In a day’s time, I’d be celebrating being a mom for 5 years. 5 ‘fabu-freakin’ years, mainly made up of fabulous first year aww-look-at-that! moments, enough to warrant spending a few grand just to throw a first year celebration, coupled with four years of what-the-f-did-he-just-do moments…also enough to warrant staying up all night just to […]
Losing the fatty off Natty: the day I froze my fats
“Still lazing in bed or already at the clinic? What’s the downtime for the treatment and what are the risks?”, I received the first text of the day from the husband. “Here. No downtime, it’s non-invasive”, I responded. “Ok. Just want to make sure that the procedure is as safe as possible. How long will […]
